Dating with a Disability
sucks!.No you won't even begin to relate to anyone of us, if you have not taken a step in our shoes, or live with us. Each person with a disability life is different and, how they maneuver around life is different too. But there is one thing that's the same like a non disabled person, having a heart to love someone dearly. Statistics show's that only 50% of adult's with disabilities are not in sexual relationship at all. according to Disabled-World. A person with a disability can feel like they are emotionally and psychologically a burden with their own condition's. An at time's these feeling can carry into finding that special someone. Like, fear of being rejected because of their disabilities and this isn't just focused on disabilities alone, medical condition's also play a huge role in having these feeling too. Then come's another major role in putting ourselves out there attracting devotees (Able body person, who altar's their bodies in being disabled.) There are so many avenue's in dealing with a disability and trying to date at the same time, based on intimacy, emotional and psychologic feelings. That non disabled bodies really don't understand. And these feeling can become difficult for some to talk about--how society can become. Let's talk more on the bright side---a person with a disability is capable of finding the love of their lives. And here are a list of reasons why to date someone with a disability. First, take the time to listen and not judge on mental and physical appearance. We are human like any other person. Those misconception are nothing but wasted space. Take the time to communicate with the person and come with an open mind. You will begin to see a brighter picture and, get to know them for who they are. Secondly, People with disabilities are so quickly to become sheltered away, and here comes all those feeling. We all enjoy a great stroll in the park, or whatever seem to hit the spot. Like, a good Netflix or Hulu movie and that's just only to name a few. There really isn't a need to be ashamed to hang out with us. we're just like you and love Adventure. Thirdly, Let's go ahead and throw this out there, everyone enjoys meeting new people. The same with people with Mental and Physical disabilities. And this open's up to a world of getting a chance to date. No matter where you meet them. Fourthly, Getting to know yourself, if you don't know who you are and what you want in life, no one else will get to know you or what you want in life. Basically once you get to know who you are and, what you want in life, Mr. or Ms. Right will come knocking at your door. The bottom line here is know which road you are going to take and keep going. Fifthly, Honesty always win the prize, Opening up about your condition can become a fly caught in a web. And you don't want to become that fly in a spiderweb trap. This is the most scariest part coming from a person with a disability. But if you want to get out on the dating field, talking about your disability has to come out. Work cited Page Disabled-world photo: Free stock photo
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